There is no hard and fast rule as to determine if your man really loves you or if it’s just a superficial relationship. However there are certain things that he might do with you who will suggest that your relationship will only get stronger with each passing day. These behaviors are an indication about him attracted to you head over heels and want to strengthen the relationship.
1. He is a very careful listener
First thing that really tells if he cares about you or not is his ability to actually listen to what you have to say. The more empathy he has with you the more attracted you will become to him. Now pretending empathy is not sustainable so it pretty much means he is actually trying to understand you better and want to contribute with some helpful advice. Sometimes they will know when you only want someone to lend you an ear and they would gladly oblige.
2. He will get into arguments with you
Any relationship becomes stronger when both find certain disagreements on certain points and try to resolve those conflicts by facing them head on. If your guy just simply distances himself from such discomforts he is not prioritizing you or the relationship as important. He is a keeper if he works his way through the argument and resolve conflicts which suggests he values your relationship very much.
3. You are the top priority for him
If your guy tries to spend as much time as possible with you while incurring certain sacrifices on his part it means he really loves you. If he has some prior commitments yet he manages to squeeze time out to spend with you suggests he puts you above everything else and your happiness means a lot to him.
4. He does not take your relationship for granted
There are always ups and downs in the relationship and a person kind of gets used to the care and attention of their significant other. However if he always makes you feel precious and desired means he is strongly attracted to you and want you to know that he appreciates your efforts in the relationship. He will try to let you know how fortunate he feels now that you are in his life and how much better the journey has become with a companion like you.